The way this aspects manifests depends on how alike your world views are in the first place. If we have two people who are equally flexible or rigid, progressive or traditional then we can see an extremism come about that is a result of becoming more radicalized in their personal ideas as result of the interaction between the two. It’s much like the bubble that the internet puts us into. We are bombarded with stories, pictures, posts and information we already agree with so we will buy more. This aspect is similar in that it reinforces the ideas you have in common. We can see a couple acting in extreme ways that they would never act in if they weren’t together. I’m sure Mickey and Mallory from Natural Born Killers would have had this aspect, among many others. Not that it makes you a killer, it makes you act out in extreme ways or think in extreme ways that you would not otherwise be caught up in without the influence of the relationship. We free each other from our previous ideas through forcibly insisting each other experience the other's opinion. The other way this opposition shows up is when we have two people who aren’t in vast agreement about their world views and challenge each others thinking, beliefs and assumptions. There is a constant challenge to each other that results in friction because you aren’t in agreement. The extremes of your differences are pulling you apart but also forcing your views and beliefs to expand. We free each other from our previous ideas through forcibly insisting each other experience the other's opinion. You will need to be comfortable with new thinking and new experiences, as well, if you are going to enjoy this aspect. Even if you are in initial agreement about your views you will not be a conventional couple. Many couples with this aspect are upsetting others because they challenge what “should be.” You can find this to be one of the sources of bonding between you. In fact, many couples enjoy that they stir others up. It can expand both people and open them to a new way of seeing things, a new way of loving, a new way of living If you are expecting this to be a traditional role relationship then this aspect may not work for you. It exists to shake up your ideas about tradition and safety and allow something truer to be learned. It can expand both people and open them to a new way of seeing things, a new way of loving, a new way of living. Again, if one or both people are very traditional or looking for "Ozzy and Harriet" then this is not the Aspect for you. It will be a constant source of upset and go against what you think you are and what you want.
Niiwiin
10/31/2019 06:48:16 pm
This aspect is exact in our charts I love the idea of trail blazing and I thinks it's a good fit for both of us as friends or as a couple ~ always appreciate your perspective Jewel ~ Comments are closed.
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